About Me

Hi, I'm Debbie! I’m passionate about helping women build true, lasting confidence from the inside out and love their life more fully.

For most of my life, I was afraid to be known. I played it safe, kept quiet, and lived with an underlying fear of rejection. Then in 2020, everything cracked open. In the middle of the pandemic, I was hit with a deep wave of grief for a version of life I thought I should’ve lived — married, with children, feeling "on track." I had felt low before, but this was deeper. I did all the Sunday school answers but nothing could shake off this deep feeling of hopelessness, that I had wasted my whole life.

I was afraid to be truly seen. I kept walls up, fearing rejection and hiding parts of myself because of my sense of not worthlessness... never being enough. But playing it safe didn’t protect me — it led me to the very place I feared: loneliness, disconnection, and self-doubt.

In what I can only describe as a divine series of nudges and synchronicities of miracles by Heavenly Father, I slowly — through guidance and lots of soul work — I began to unlearn old beliefs and connect with who I really am. I discovered teachings that helped me reclaim my worth and reshape how I viewed myself. This changed everything.  It opened my eyes to things I had never been taught — about self-worth, intimacy, the power of my mind(thoughts) and emotional maturity. I realized how disconnected I was from myself, especially in how I viewed my identity, my body, and my value as a woman.

That led me to study psychology and personal development. I began to understand why I did what I did — and most importantly, that I could change. The truths were always there; I just couldn’t see them when I didn’t love who I was.

As I started believing I was worthy, everything shifted. I forgave my younger self. I let love and joy in. I stopped living for some future version of life and started loving the life I have now — full of meaning, adventure, and deep connection. This journey led me to greater self-love, a deeper connection with others, and a genuine confidence I didn’t think was possible.

That’s why I’m here: to share what I’ve learned to help other women rewrite their stories, reclaim their confidence, give themselves self-compassion and finally feel at peace in their own lives — because we all deserve a life we love living.

I hope this space helps you heal, believe, and bravely become the woman you were always meant to be.

With love and confidence,

Debbie

Here are a few fun facts…

  • Foodie, beach lover, psychology nerd, and big fan of love in all its forms.

  • I really love food. Cooking, baking, taking classes, and traveling for great bites (Savannah bakery trip? Worth it!). The kitchen is one of my happiest places — second only to the beach.

  • Game night? I’m in. I love card and board games, and yes, I play to win (trash talk included — you’ve been warned). GenCon is basically a holiday in my book.

  • My book club feeds my love for psychology and growth — and yes, we get into the spicy topics too. I believe confidence includes knowing and owning all parts of yourself, including intimacy and sex.

  • You’ll often find me throwing themed dinner parties, watching Married at First Sight, stargazing, chasing fireflies, or planning my last-minute road trip to Canada for the Northern Lights.

  • Pilates, pickleball, and the occasional wildflower-filled hike help me love and celebrate my body. Right now, I’m in my abundance and love era — welcoming surrender, ease, and joy into everything I do.

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This is your official invitation to

Follow along and come hang out... your best self is waiting

Say hi on Instagram

Share my favorite memes, quotes and inspiration on how to lead an intentional life and how to gain greater self confidence.

Catch me on Facebook

Come join me over on Facebook to get daily inspiration and how to create a better mindset and allow more peace into your life.

Join our

book club

Monthly book club on a wide variety of topics: self confidence, money, sex, intimacy, trust and how to change your mindset

For my best stuff,

join my email list.

Our weekly newsletter where I share all my favorite things I've learned throughout the week and can't wait to share with you + a pick me up on how to love yourself more fully!